What I Wish I Knew Before Learning Dutch (So You Don’t Make My Mistakes)

Published on 19 September 2025 at 17:00

Let’s be real—when I first started learning Dutch, I had no idea what I was doing. I made all the classic mistakes, from focusing too much on grammar to being scared of speaking. If you’re just starting out (or even thinking about it), here’s what I wish someone had told me from the start.

 

1. Don’t Stress About Grammar (At First)

Dutch grammar is complex—there’s no sugar-coating it. But if you spend all your time trying to memorize rules, you’ll get overwhelmed and bored. Start by learning useful phrases and patterns. Grammar will make more sense once you’re actually using the language.

 

2. Listening Comes First

Before you try to speak, train your ears. Watch Netflix in Dutch, listen to Dutch podcasts, and repeat what you hear. The more input you get, the more confident you’ll feel when it’s time to open your mouth.

 

3. Be Loud and Wrong

This one’s huge: don’t wait until you’re perfect to speak. Just go for it. Mess up. Get corrected. Laugh about it. That’s how you improve. The people you talk to will usually be impressed that you’re even trying.

 

4. Set Tiny Goals, Not Huge Ones

Instead of saying “I want to be fluent,” start with “I want to order coffee in Dutch” or “I want to introduce myself.” These little wins build momentum and keep your motivation alive.

 

5. Make It Fun or Forget It

If your only interaction with Dutch is through boring lessons, you’ll quit. Mix it up. Listen to Dutch rap. Watch Dutch comedy. Follow funny Dutch Instagram accounts. The more fun you have, the more you’ll stick with it.

 

Conclusion

Learning Dutch doesn’t have to be stressful or serious all the time. It’s a journey—and sometimes a messy one—but it can be one of the most rewarding things you do. Learn from my mistakes and make the process yours.

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